How do you work on bringing your marriage back to “normal”?
Monday, June 29th, 2009
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My husband can be a workaholic! He might work 7 days a week one week and some weeks he’ll have off a few days. We go nuts trying to figure out what we’re going to do. Back in the old days (2 yrs. ago) we used to be able to enjoy ourselves just by sitting at home doing nothing. Now it seems we’re looking to get out more and we have a baby, so that doesn’t help.
My husband can be a workaholic! He might work 7 days a week one week and some weeks he’ll have off a few days. We go nuts trying to figure out what we’re going to do. Back in the old days (2 yrs. ago) we used to be able to enjoy ourselves just by sitting at home doing nothing. Now it seems we’re looking to get out more and we have a baby, so that doesn’t help.
He has lost all intimacy and he isn’t very open with his emotions/ feelings. He changed a lot since we had our daughter in November. I just want to go back closer to that honeymoon stage of marriage. I’ve only been married for two years, but lately, married life isn’t as enjoyable.
When you feel your marriage becoming a separation, not a unity, what do you do? (and I’m not talking counseling, what can the couple do?)
Isabella
