I Am Always Working

Good Girl asked:


My husband is a great guy and we have been married for over 3 yrs. now. He has been an over-achiever since high school and is doing unbelievably well for his age. However, he used to work 8-6:30 or 7 with weekends off. Now it is stretching until 8am-8:30 or 9 and he is also having to go in a couple weekends a month. He feels 100% that he is doing this for his family and that he does not enjoy working. I am very lucky to be able to stay home with our toddler. However, I just can’t understand his mentality. I think if you give a company 200% they will “expect” that forever. We relocated to a city 2 years ago where we don’t know a soul and staying home with a 2 yr old and not knowing anyone can be a very lonely place. I love staying home, and don’t want to work. But, is all this time really necessary? They love him at his job and I don’t think leaving 1 hour early every night will make a difference. Am I being selfish? Can anyone relate? Thanks

Chase

help with love life asked:


the women im dating is working all the time she has a doughter and a grandson at home . after work she never has time for one on one yet she exspect that i come running when she has time which is never or hardley ever at the end of a day or week after she spends time with her doughter and grandson and work .itryed to talk to her about it yet it alway or almost aways ends in a fight. wht to do? comunication is breaking down

Elijah

TokyoGirl asked:


I’m currently working 2 jobs, and I like both. Whenever someone says something about leaving my part-time job, I either mutter something about leaving it “eventually” or say how much I love working that job. I’m paranoid that as soon as I leave one job I’ll be fired from the other job & be SOL. I actually was fired once & ended up not having a job for a few months, since it was so hard finding a decent job that paid enough for my bills. I think that only fueled my work obsession. My two sisters have had terrible times keeping jobs, so my family has kept emphasising my work ethics. Now they’re starting to say that I work too much.

I’m working my entire life away. If I’m not careful I’ll work away the time that I could be spending on education, friends, & relationships.

Taking a huge vacation isn’t really an option for me, since that’s too huge of step right now. I have taken a step & asked to work fewer hours at my other job, but I’m afraid of allowing myself to overwork myself.

Julian

oracle_28 asked:


I can’t stop working. I go to sleep thinking about work.

When I get up to pee or drink water, I go check my mailbox.

I eat infront of my laptop.

I bring home work and i work even on weekends.

HELP!

How do I get a life?

Evan

I Speak the Truth asked:


I dont want to leave , I dont want to stop working, I cant stand being off even though I get paid for 3 more months after I leave the vessel. I’m 21 years old , single and no family… Do I need professional help or is it ok to be the way I am?

Victoria

core helps asked:


Can passion & emotions rekindled

Alexis

OLubunmi O asked:


our sex life is suffring. we do have sex like once in two weeks and the only time we have sex is always in a rush which make me not to enjoy sex again. what must i do

John