
londonplaything asked: I am a 33 years old professional person, running my own business. I used to go out all the time and had loads of party bodies. I did a massive “spring cleaning” in my friends when I cut out those people who only hang around me whilst I paid for drinks and parties.
I ended up with a small selection of people around me who I value and work with.
I am a very busy person and very seldom have time for myself. I ended up on the loose end this evening and went through my phone to call people I could catch up with. I ended up on my own.
Am I getting old or have I just isolated myself by being a workaholic?
Should I get down over it or shall I just accept the fact that it was “self inflicted” and keep concentrating on my future and on my work?
Is there something wrong with me or is it a normal thing to end up on your own? Is this a good thing or did I make a huge mistake by being always “so busy”?
Thank you so much for your wonderful and supportiv answers. I am feeling honoured to have received so many responses.
I am very busy and find it extremely difficult to make new friends as I do not get to go out.
I love, cherish and respect my friends. I would not change them for a million years!!
It is the first time I ended up on my own. I am wondering if it is a good thing or have I made a huge mistake by isolating myself from the world?
Steven